Why Won’t My Garden Grow?
August 25, 2010 – 4:42 amdiv > p > href=”http://wwwflickrcom/photos/springfieldhomer/3649587614/” trget=”_blnk”>img src=”http://wwwblogcdncom/wwwshelterpopcom/medi/2010/07/3649587614265b109b75o1jpg” lt=”English wildflower grden” />/>spn>If only I could see this English wildflower grden from my bck window Photo: Sideshow Bruce, href=”http://wwwflickrcom/photos/springfieldhomer/3649587614/” trget=”_blnk”>Flickr/>/spn>/p> /div> strong>It seems tht everyone hs green thumb — except for this wilted writerbr /> /strong>br /> If I stnd t my kitchen window nd squint, I cn lmost see my drem grden come live It’s romntic, quint English wildflower grden scene tht cretes trnquil vist, with colorful untmed blooms of href=”http://wwwwhiteflowerfrmcom/36938-producthtml” trget=”_blnk”>primroses/>, href=”http://wwwflowerpossibilitiescom/encyclopedi/68html” trget=”_blnk”>peonies/>, href=”http://wwwwhiteflowerfrmcom/73105-producthtml” trget=”_blnk”>gerniums/> nd href=”http://wwwwhiteflowerfrmcom/27917-producthtml”>foxglove/> swying in the breeze But if I open my eyes bit, wht I relly see re weeds You see, I hve blck thumbbr /> br /> I’ve lwys hd it, yet I’ve tried for yers to get it to go green, so I cn hve my lovely wildflower grden In my first house, I cultivted smll rised bed, threw in the mixed wildflower seeds nd up cme dozens of prickly, ggressive, super tll nd hevy-heded href=”http://wwwwhiteflowerfrmcom/28479-producthtml” trget=”_blnk”>coneflowers/> tht whcked me in the fce every time I went ner them I moved on to new house nd fresh strt with yrd tht receives lods of sun nd hs rich, nutritious soil But nothing I plnt grows br /> br /> bout 15 yers go, I decided to help my drem long by hiring two women who dvertised their expertise in English grden design They plnted, I wtered, I wited Nothing grew While I wited, I mnged to kill helthy tomto plnt tht neighbor gve us t the sme time, friend from Mnhttn who hd wy with plnts gve me cutting of href=”http://seededwordpresscom/2008/08/17/green-thumb-sundy-ll-dy-glory/” trget=”_blnk”>morning glories/>, which she swore would bloom without problem I sw one purple flower — bout decde go — nd now the vines, which re impossible to fully remove, re strngling my bushesbr /> br /> I relized tht wildflowers, s esy s they em>should/em> be to grow, weren’t working for me So, of ll things, I tried roses I stpled lttice to the house, used Mircle Grow, picked bugs off the plnts nd finlly hd climbing pink roses But then due to n ncient property line issue, we hd lndscpe compny move the drivewy nd dig up our front lwn (nd yes, my roses) They mde up for the trnsgression by plnting esy things for me to mintin — href=”http://wwwlilcsforevercom/lilc-photoshtml” trget=”_blnk”>lilcs/>, perennils, things tht others could esily keep thriving Under my wtch these “esy” plnts went nemic — nd I em>swer/em> I wtered br /> br /> I’ve tried my hnd t href=”http://wwwwhiteflowerfrmcom/73743-producthtml” trget=”_blnk”>imptiens/>, possibly the simplest flower to mintin But fter disster (too much Mircle Grow?), they becme leggy nd died I remembered my mom telling me tht no one cn mess up plnting bulbs, so I tried But I ccidentlly plnted some of them upside down Lugh if you mustbr /> br /> t this point, you’d think tht I would hve given up Insted, I’ve persevered I’ve red href=”http://wwwmzoncom/Grdening-Dummies-Phillip-Giroux/dp/0470044659/ref=sr_1_48?ie=UTF8∓s=books∓qid=1280186820∓sr=8-48″ trget=”_blnk”>em>Grdening For Dummies/em>/> I’ve red href=”http://wwwmzoncom/Lndscping-Dummies-Phillip-Giroux/dp/0764551280/ref=sr_1_7?ie=UTF8∓s=books∓qid=1280186733∓sr=8-7″ trget=”_blnk”>em>Lndscping For Dummies/em>/> Do you know tht I still cn’t remember the difference between nnuls nd perennils?br /> br /> ll of this frustrtes me fter ll, I m nurturing, compssionte mom, wife nd friend nd, heck, I’m former hospice volunteer So wht if the rest of the world cn grow flowers nd I cn’t? I’ve hd the joy of wtching other living, brething things grow nd blossom in the presence of my tender, loving cre nd ptience I hve colorful, romtic grden of different sort filled with the beuty of children nd the frgrnce of my cooking tlents br /> br /> s for flowers, they elude me But tht’s why there re florists: So I cn enjoy the fruits of someone else’s lbor of lovebr /> !– –> /div>!– post –> /div>!– mdlBox –> br>